Teaching My Children About My Diabetes
I’ve been caught. Two sets of eyes peer at me as I stand in the pantry sucking down juice from a cartoon character juice box. You see, I have just told these two little ones that there are no more snacks before dinner, but here I stand-both snacking, and on their beverage none the less. What they don’t understand is that if mommy doesn’t partake in this snack, I will be both in a scary mood and what could be a scary situation as well. But how does one explain to their kids that mommy must drink this juice and no, they still can’t have one before dinner? Talking to children about diabetes has proven to be more challenging than I thought.
When I had my children I was never shy about my pump and why I wear it. They know that it has medicine that keeps Mommy healthy. They know I have diabetes and that if they drink one too many sippy cups or have one too many wet diapers they are liable to get a finger poke “just so Mom can check.” But what about when I do have a low, and what about explaining the realities of diabetes?
After our pantry incident, and the tears that ensued about being one juice box down, I consulted an article from the May 2011 issue of Diabetes Forecast. The article, titled “How to Talk to Children about Diabetes” read my mind. It broke down just what information to provide children based on their age and the difference in conversation if one was diagnosed before having children versus after. Since my children are small, keeping the conversations light is the best. Explain to them that this is something Mommy or Daddy has to do every day to stay to healthy. And in my case, I also explain that there will be times I have to stop what we are doing and have a quick snack to feel better; otherwise I will be very tired and not feel well. If they ask questions, such as what a glucose meter is, answer them but in a way they can understand. As they get older it will be easier for them to understand the physiology of diabetes; the true disease state, secondary complications etc. Since diabetes may have a genetic component in some families, addressing that in an age appropriate manner is also important. One suggestion when asked, “Will I ever get diabetes?” is to say, “Chances are you won’t, but if you do we know what to do.”
Recently I was touched when a friend’s daughter was diagnosed with type 1. My son, who is 4, asked what we were talking about and why she was crying. I explained that her little one had just found out she has diabetes. My son looked at her and with a huge smile said, “We have diabetes in our family but my Mommy wears her pump and it makes her super healthy.” And he’s right, we do have diabetes in our family, but we work to manage it the best we can, and handle it in stride…until you steal a juice box that is!
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